What means for you to be a champion? Are you one? Want to be a winner? How can you be a hero? Let us find out.
The Winner – Who is that?
Most likely in your life, you’ve read books, seen pictures or movies, in which one man or woman must save the world. Years back, it was usually a very strong, big and though person. Someone, who not talk too much but act, boldly going toward its goal, its destiny.
Nowadays, this picture changes a lot. You might see heroes, that do not want to be them. More modest. Asking, why me? Why not someone else? Refusing to do anything heroic. Refusing to follow the hero path. Yet, in the end, they match the expectations and save the day.
Those are the images of heroes planted in us by authors, directors, screenwriters and others. But, let’s face it, not everyone can and want to be that kind of hero, right? I mean, it would be cool to have some superhuman powers, like spiderman or superman or any of your favourites. But not necessary to fight the supervillains.
However, what is your hero description? How do you imagine a winner, a champion? Not necessarily the one, that must beat bad guys and save the world. I am sure, that you have, in your head an image, a realistic image, of yourself as a hero.
Maybe, it is just a simple man or woman. Kind to others. Always giving a helping hand. Maybe you see yourself as a coach or a mentor showing others how to improve their lives. Maybe you perceive yourself as the best driver. Or a businessman. Or a gardener living a peaceful life. All it matters, that this is your vision of a hero.
Why it is so hard to be the winner?
So why is it so hard to actually be a hero of the kind you picture? For starter, it is because of your friends and relatives expectations to be super. To be extraordinary in the way they want. Of world expectations to be best of the best of the best. In every aspect of your life. In every area of your life. Always at the peak.
And that is unrealistic and very tiring, don’t you think? I mean you, as we all, want to be a great person, right? Although, it is not always so easy and you might not always be able or wanted to be a hero and winner. Especially when you will find yourself in a difficult situation.
Life can be and sometimes is painful. You might go through difficulties, have hard times. That’s normal. It is easy to quit in such moments. Anyone can give up. And a lot of people give up on their dreams. On their lives. On being a hero, a winner, just for their own.
And this is a waste, don’t you think? Waste of your talent. Of gift you have, you came to this world. So what can you do? How can you overcome these difficulties? Or that discouragement? Is that possible at all?
How to be a winner?
First of all, you need to realise, that this pain, this difficulty is in your life for some reason, a very important one. It is to test you a little. To check if you really want to achieve your greatness. If you really want to follow your personal legend.
Now, if you absorb this pain and let the difficulty pass. It will teach you a lot about yourself. You will grow stronger. You will feel better about yourself. You will find unexpected treasures on your path. And most importantly, you win your life.
So, what actually you can do, to win your life? To be a winner? Find a goal, that is appealing to you. Set a plan, how you can move toward your goal. Be eager to learn new skills, that will help you in achieving it. Fail. Learn from it. Make adjustments. Try again.
Always stay focused on your goal. Take the responsibility for your life and actions. Form a habit, a routine you will follow every day. Be brave and take the risk. But be smart as well and have a backup plan. Be confident about your skills and ability to achieve your goal.
Remember, that you do not need to be perfect. But you are going to improve. You are growing every day. Being a hero, a winner means constantly work on yourself, on self-improvement. Learning and implementing knowledge in life.
So, how is it gonna be? You know now what to do, to be a hero. Do you want to be a winner? Or quitter? It may not be easy, but it is worth it to be a hero of your Personal Legend.
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