How are you think about yourself? How are you think about yourself, in relation to other people? Do you compare yourself with them, seeing how good they look like or what better things they have? Concentrating at this what differs you from them.
Well, doing this, you will always see others better than you. Having better cars, houses, jobs, bodies. Do you know what this will brings you? You will bad about yourself. This will make you will worthless and useless. Is that what you want? Is that how you want to think and feel about yourself?
This is an odd relation, between observing people and seeing what better they have or are and your self-esteem. Nevertheless, it exists. And if you will not stop doing this, you will always feel worst than others. I can guarantee you this. I have had that problem for years.
Even now, from time to time, I have to remind myself that we are all different, with different skills and talents. And comparing will lead me only to low well-being and self-esteem. I have my own unique skills, I am working on myself to become a better version of me. And for that, I am grateful.
So now, how it gonna be with you? You have a conscious choice. You can still compare yourself and feel bad. Or thank God, Universe, Higher instance for all gifts and talents you have. That second choice will make you feel good and improve your self-esteem and well-being. And this is what I wish you.
Be positive, be blessed, peace out.
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