How to be a winner?

How to be a winner?

Do you feel lucky? Do you feel like a winner? Would you like to feel this way? Who wouldn’t, right? Can you be a winner? Can this be taught? Come on, let’s check this out

Who is considered a winner?

Do you, like most of society, have a definition of being a winner? I am sure you have. So who it is? Is it someone with a lot of money? Or maybe someone who is popular and kind of a celebrity? Or maybe, in your opinion, it is a person who has their own little business, job, a house, husband or wife, kids.

Do you think that winners can be seen just in movies, or books? That only there is possible for someone to become one. To be a hero, no matter of circumstances or upbringing. Is this what you believe? Looking around, you might come up with that kind of assumption. Especially if you focus on the negative things that are going around. On you not winning, for example. Even worst, if you take that bit, of you not winning, and name it that you are losing.

But are you really? Does not winning, let say at the lottery, makes you straightaway a loser? Is that right? How is that? Explain that to me, please. How this is related? So in this case everyone who does not win is a loser. Interesting. What about those who do not play at all? Are they losers as well? It is hard for me to believe in that kind of hypothesis.

Why can’t you be a winner?

So who actually can become a winner? Is this limited just to a few chosen ones? What is stopping you from joining this team? Have you ever thought about these questions? I was wondering about them many times for years now. The simplest answer I found and I agree with, is that. Anyone can be a winner. You to. You just need a few things to become one.

But first, let’s deal with something else. With your doubts and that critic sitting right behind your ear or at the back of your head. The one whispering into your ear that this is not possible. Not for you. It is a dream, a fairy tale. It is limited only to those few chosen ones. Do you know what I am talking about, right? We all have that kind of doubting thoughts. No matter how successful you might look outside.

Other things that might be blocking you are a lack of support and knowledge. You might quite easily find both of those things and use them to your advantage. To shift the odds to your favour and to join the team of winners. You just need to be willing to realise you need it, admit you need it, search for it and finally, use it. That’s actually it.

How can you learn the winning?

So to become a winner the following steps are required from you. Find what you are missing. Are those resources, knowledge, some support? How can you acquire these missing bits? What can you do to collect them? But before that, ask yourself two more questions. Do I really want to be a winner? Am I ready to take the required actions? So what are your answers?

If your desire, of becoming a winner, is a burning one, great stuff. It will pull you toward your dream. It will help you to formulate a plan for your goal. It will allow you to open your eyes, heart and mind to the opportunities. To occasions that will help you to gather whatever is that you require. To keep you on track, align with your dream, no matter what will be happening around you.

Finally, the last but not least step is to be consistent. To do a little step toward your goal every single day. Every day affirm also to yourself – It is possible for me to achieve my goal. And act. Word of advice, though. Be compassionate and kind for yourself, if it happens that you miss a day. Just get up the day after and do your thing.


From this short material, you learned that you can be a champion, a winner. You know now, that this is possible for you as well. And you discover a bit of knowledge of what you need to do, to be the one and achieve your goals.

In any case, you would like to know more or need some support, I would love to help you with this. Just drop me a message on the links provided below.

Blessings upon you my friend.

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