How much you criticise yourself? How much are you trying to make yourself better by scrutinising every effort and every good thing you make? How much are you dissatisfied with yourself and your doings?
Surprisingly, you might even not think about that. You might even not be conscious of what is going on. You might think that this is normal behaviour, especially when you are working on yourself. When you invest in your self-improvement, in your growth.
You might think that doing this, criticising and demanding more and more, is the best way to achieve something. Maybe in your opinion is the only way to accomplish your goals. And you right. At least to some distinction.
Wanting to be better, working on becoming a better version of yourself is great. And everyone who knows this and who does this is worthy to look at and copying. Furthermore, you, yourself should be proud of having the strength and eagerness to do this.
However, focusing only on the parts to improvement and never-ending demanding to do more. Is not actually a good thing. As at some point, you will lose all your motivation and willingness to do anything. To do your best. What point of trying if you are not prising yourself for anything.
What can you do about that? Firstly, accept that you are a human and your best friend. Secondly, accept that you might fail, make something wrong, take a wrong path, and this is ok. Lastly, prise yourself for all the good and positive acts and achievements.
This will give you power, willingness and motivation to do even more on your way to become the best version of yourself. Moreover, this will make you happier in your life. And that’s the key to a better and more satisfying life, and to faster improvements of yourself. To enjoying it and living it the way you like, and the way that makes you fill fulfil.
Be positive, be blessed, peace out.