What kind of people do you surround yourself with? Are they criticise all your decisions? Claiming that they just want to help you to be better? Or they support you, even if they, might not agree with you, yet they still helping you achieve your goals?
Of course, you need to be conscious of your value. You need to believe in yourself. Have confidence in your skills, abilities and knowledge. Only you can build that faith. Only you can make it grow. Though having the right people around you will make it easier.
And it is a very important thing, as it determines if you will grow or give up on everything. If you hear all the time only how bad, how clumsy you are. How you can not do anything. Most likely, this will lower down your self-esteem and at the same time, your willingness to do anything.
You know where this will lead you, right? Exactly, to the life full of unhappiness and disappointment. To the life of the observer, who is just watching, through the window, at all the goodness, the world has to offer. Is that what you want? I hope not.
On the other hand, when you surround yourself with people who support you, encourage you. This will give you more power to follow your dreams and achieve your goals. This will make you grow and build confidence even faster.
Be careful, though. Be sure that those people are your real friends. That they support you, without expecting anything in return. And if they disagree with you, they will talk with you. Without criticism, sarcasm and all those strange ways of talking, so popular nowadays.
So, now, look at people in your surroundings and determine who is good for your growth and whos not. Surely there might be some people you can not avoid completely. In this case, limit time with them. But, try to find a positive thing in that person and be a supporter of him or her. At the same time, search for a company of people that will truly support you, in your growth and spend time with them.
Be positive, be blessed, peace out.
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