Do you have a clearly specified goal? A clear vision of what you want to achieve in your life? Where you are heading? To what place? What is your destination? How does it look like? What things are surrounding you there? Who is with you? Can you see this place? Can you feel it? What sounds do you hear? How does it smell like? Can you imagine it with as many details as possible? Why this is so important? You might think, why should you, to be clear, about your destination? Why, if at all, you need this all clarity? What if you do not have, all of this?
A great roman philosopher, Seneca, said – If a man knows not to which port it sails, no wind is favourable In other words, if you do not know, where you want to be, what you want to have, you can not move forward to this place or at all. Without knowing what you want from life, how can you get it? If you do not know your goal, how can you be sure you did not miss it already? Popular saying nowadays is that – I don’t know what I want, but when I find it I will know it. Is that possible? How something can be searched and found, if it is unknown, unspecified? Think about that. If you do not know, what you would like to have for your breakfast, anything given to you will be good. Isn’t it?
It is the same with the rest of the things in life. If you do not know, what you want, everything you get will be fine. Is that something you want from your life? Just to get some random things? Do you want, that someone will decide for you? Chose for you, what you want and what is good for you? Are you still a child, who might not know, what it wants or desire things, that might be harmful? Is that right? Is that, how you would like to think about yourself? Yes, it might somehow give you a feeling of safeness. Reduce tension, as it put the weight of making decision and responsibility for them, on someone else shoulders. But, at the same time, it allows another person to decide, what is good for you. You are giving out, the power over your life. I hope, that it is not what you really want.
Another case is, that maybe you are afraid, of what you desire? You are clear, what you want. How would you like, your life, to look like. You are just too afraid, to admit what it is, that you want? Or maybe, ashamed, that you want, that kind of thing. Maybe you feel not worthy, of having these desired things. That kind of a lifestyle. In any case, it is quite normal to be afraid to feel any emotion. You are a human being and you have emotions. Just admit, how you feel. And then transform those feelings, into positive ones. You can do this by, thinking thoughts of love, gratitude, self-worthiness and joy. Those thoughts will impact and convert your feelings and emotions. Because you deserve all goodness and happiness in your life.
I am certain that you can do it, that you can decide what is your own, life destination. And I am sure, you are brave enough, to find your own goal. Find your port of destination. To create a clear vision, of what you want to have in life and where you want to be. To find your purpose in life. To have clarity of it. To know where you are heading and why. As you were answering the questions above, thinking about your answers, you realise how important it is to have that. This is the first step to a better and more meaningful life. Finding your desired destination and, by this, taking responsibility for your life. If you find it hard, to do this on your own, feel free to contact me and I will be more than happy, to help you with that task. I will create a space for you, so you will be able, to find your own, life meaning and set a clear plan for it.
Blessings upon you my friend.
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